I’m learning not to make people guess
Expecting someone to understand an unspoken need can turn a small issue into a much bigger one.
I have definitely had moments where I thought something should have been obvious. Then I realized I had never actually said what I wanted.
People can be thoughtful without being mind readers. A good partner can pay attention, but clear communication still matters.
I am trying to replace hints with actual sentences: this bothered me, I need reassurance, I would like more time together, or I need some space.
It feels vulnerable, but it also gives the other person a fair chance to understand me.
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